Need your support!

[Maureen Reintjes-Peace4 Admin]

2 separate families are shattered due to malicious intent of their loved ones to go and stay missing all being played out in Bartlesville.

I haven't commented on this one yet simply because I'm too angry!
http://www.examiner-enterprise.com/articles/2009/05/10/news/news795...

I did comment on this one!
http://www.examiner-enterprise.com/articles/2009/05/13/news/news782...

Show your support for me and Peggy Rockey, go to these links and make it known that maliciously going missing should be a crime!

[Sara Huizenga]

Please excuse my due to lack of time current copy/paste, but for now...sharing this comment I just left on our John Quinn's page regarding Maureen...


Oh, I'm sorry, John! Thank you for caring so much! xoxoxo I'll try to write something and clear it all up a bit more soon...

Basically, well, you know Maureen's husband was missing, but maybe you don't know that as well b/c, well, you know Maureen, and how she is such a giver and not as good at taking, lol...so...

Find out, her husband is alive, but not most definitely well, many signs pointing towards mental incapacity.

However, she is now being dragged through divorce court with no sensitivity or seemingly awareness of her situation at all! They are not even willing to give him some kind of psychological evaluation!

So, she needs our help...

xoxoxo

[Melanie M Murvine]

To Maureen,
I am so sorry that this happened to you. I will pray for you and your family. Am I to understand that he just disappeared without saying a word and has now showed up out of nowhere and is requesting a divorce?

Sara/Peace4 Co-Founder said:

Please excuse my due to lack of time current copy/paste, but for now...sharing this comment I just left on our John Quinn's page regarding Maureen...


Oh, I'm sorry, John! Thank you for caring so much! xoxoxo I'll try to write something and clear it all up a bit more soon...

Basically, well, you know Maureen's husband was missing, but maybe you don't know that as well b/c, well, you know Maureen, and how she is such a giver and not as good at taking, lol...so...

Find out, her husband is alive, but not most definitely well, many signs pointing towards mental incapacity.

However, she is now being dragged through divorce court with no sensitivity or seemingly awareness of her situation at all! They are not even willing to give him some kind of psychological evaluation!

So, she needs our help...

xoxoxo

[Melanie M Murvine]

Ok I have read the news reports. I am sorry again Maureen you are extremely hurt and your husband had no right to treat the people that loved him this way but I am sorry to say he is not the only one, my ex did the same thing but I tracked him down shortly after he took off. My children were devastated it took years of counseling for them and myself, the pain is beyond excruciating.
I know our situations differ in many respects but one aspect in which they are the same is the heartless way they have left, unfortunately there is no law preventing people from just taking off and disappearing, LE cannot do anything, the courts cannot do anything about that.
It will be up to you and the many other families that have been through this to push forward obtain counseling and leave that one behind. He has admitted to taking money out of the account and why he left, (personal reasons), never a good enough explanation because it leaves the ones that love them and the ones that have devoted their life literally to search for them with a cruelty nobody should have to feel. I will pray for you and your family.
Sincerely, Melanie

[Sara Huizenga]

It's so great to see everyone come together to support one of our own...that means so much, thank you for showing the world that it is okay to make yourself vulnerable enough to truly care...

[Sara Huizenga]

Link to Todd Matthew's past interview with Maureen...
http://missingpiecesshow.homestead.com/MissingPiecesEpisode61Archiv...

[Maureen Reintjes-Peace4 Admin]

Melanie,

Thank you for sharing your story. But, I think mine is possibly a lot different than your story is and different than Peggy Rockey's story. I and numerous PIs did try to track my husband down. I thought he was dead. This was a good man, a participating parent, retired USMC MSGT, retired from Sprint, rehired by CitiGroup who never rehires anyone. I said goodbye to him at the door, we had a beautiful conversation, he told me he loved me and he'd see me after work. He disappeared on his lunch hour and took nothing with him, not even his check book.

LE and the courts will be doing something about someone who goes maliciously missing by the time I get done. If mental illness and/or physical illness did not cause this then my husband went maliciously missing. This is not about forcing someone to stay who doesn't want to stay in a marriage....good God is that the type of woman you think I am? I AM NOT A FRIGGEN DOORMAT and never have been and don't need to be. I'm a leader in my community, I work 2 jobs I'm hardly the type of woman who needs to keep someone around that doesn't want to be around.

This IS about making it a crime to go maliciously missing. Duping family, community and LE into thinking you are missing should be a crime. And, this IS about the missing community supporting two woman who have gone through hell and walked in the same shoes as all others out there that are missing loved ones. We can't help it how our cases have turned out but we can help to make sure no one else ever has to go through this HELL.

Maureen

Melanie M Murvine said:

Ok I have read the news reports. I am sorry again Maureen you are extremely hurt and your husband had no right to treat the people that loved him this way but I am sorry to say he is not the only one, my ex did the same thing but I tracked him down shortly after he took off. My children were devastated it took years of counseling for them and myself, the pain is beyond excruciating.
I know our situations differ in many respects but one aspect in which they are the same is the heartless way they have left, unfortunately there is no law preventing people from just taking off and disappearing, LE cannot do anything, the courts cannot do anything about that.
It will be up to you and the many other families that have been through this to push forward obtain counseling and leave that one behind. He has admitted to taking money out of the account and why he left, (personal reasons), never a good enough explanation because it leaves the ones that love them and the ones that have devoted their life literally to search for them with a cruelty nobody should have to feel. I will pray for you and your family.
Sincerely, Melanie

[Sara Huizenga]

 Active audio link as well between Maureen and Todd Matthews...
http://missingpieces.mypodcast.com/2007/10/Missing_Pieces_Episode_6...


Todd Matthews
NamUs /Southeast Region
Regional Systems Administrator
www.NamUs.gov
NamUs - National Missing and
Unidentified Persons System

[Sara Huizenga]

And wow...damn I love you, Maureen...you are our girl! You keep speaking out...your voice speaks volumes....xooxoxo


Maureen said:

Melanie,
Thank you for sharing your story. But, I think mine is possibly a lot different than your story is and different than Peggy Rockey's story. I and numerous PIs did try to track my husband down. I thought he was dead. This was a good man, a participating parent, retired USMC MSGT, retired from Sprint, rehired by CitiGroup who never rehires anyone. I said goodbye to him at the door, we had a beautiful conversation, he told me he loved me and he'd see me after work. He disappeared on his lunch hour and took nothing with him, not even his check book.
LE and the courts will be doing something about someone who goes maliciously missing by the time I get done. If mental illness and/or physical illness did not cause this then my husband went maliciously missing. This is not about forcing someone to stay who doesn't want to stay in a marriage....good God is that the type of woman you think I am? I AM NOT A FRIGGEN DOORMAT and never have been and don't need to be. I'm a leader in my community, I work 2 jobs I'm hardly the type of woman who needs to keep someone around that doesn't want to be around.

This IS about making it a crime to go maliciously missing. Duping family, community and LE into thinking you are missing should be a crime. And, this IS about the missing community supporting two woman who have gone through hell and walked in the same shoes as all others out there that are missing loved ones. We can't help it how our cases have turned out but we can help to make sure no one else ever has to go through this HELL.

Maureen

Melanie M Murvine said:

Ok I have read the news reports. I am sorry again Maureen you are extremely hurt and your husband had no right to treat the people that loved him this way but I am sorry to say he is not the only one, my ex did the same thing but I tracked him down shortly after he took off. My children were devastated it took years of counseling for them and myself, the pain is beyond excruciating.
I know our situations differ in many respects but one aspect in which they are the same is the heartless way they have left, unfortunately there is no law preventing people from just taking off and disappearing, LE cannot do anything, the courts cannot do anything about that.
It will be up to you and the many other families that have been through this to push forward obtain counseling and leave that one behind. He has admitted to taking money out of the account and why he left, (personal reasons), never a good enough explanation because it leaves the ones that love them and the ones that have devoted their life literally to search for them with a cruelty nobody should have to feel. I will pray for you and your family.
Sincerely, Melanie

[John Quinn]

Sara..Like I told Maureen..If he was mentally unstable..why did he go to a lawyer and ask for a divorce..by a notice in the paper no less ! Why was he unfit mentally and still was able to go to an ATM and take money out before he left?Why did he walk up to Maureen and their daughters?Did he reconise them..I'd say YES..Did he hug them and tell them he loved them..I'd say NO..Did he say he was sorry?..I'd say NO I would say he was crazy..like a fox !! I'm a forgiving man but I would never be able to forgive him.All the pain and anguish and worry he put Maureen and the girls through...GOD help him..cause NO ONE ELSE WILL !! love,,john

Sara/Peace4 Co-Founder said:

Also, it seems overwhelmingly clear that Maureen's husband, Jon, is suffering from some kind of mental incapacity which may be the very reason for his approx. 4 year disappearance.

Maureen would like to have him psychologically evaluated prior to/as a part of their current divorce trial, how can she legally go about having that done?

[John Quinn]

Sara...Because she is still his wife..I think she could get a court order to have it done.Her lawyer should know !! It would have to be a good shrink cause he'll try to play him !!..love..john

John Quinn said:

Sara..Like I told Maureen..If he was mentally unstable..why did he go to a lawyer and ask for a divorce..by a notice in the paper no less ! Why was he unfit mentally and still was able to go to an ATM and take money out before he left?Why did he walk up to Maureen and their daughters?Did he reconise them..I'd say YES..Did he hug them and tell them he loved them..I'd say NO..Did he say he was sorry?..I'd say NO I would say he was crazy..like a fox !! I'm a forgiving man but I would never be able to forgive him.All the pain and anguish and worry he put Maureen and the girls through...GOD help him..cause NO ONE ELSE WILL !! love,,john

Sara/Peace4 Co-Founder said:

Also, it seems overwhelmingly clear that Maureen's husband, Jon, is suffering from some kind of mental incapacity which may be the very reason for his approx. 4 year disappearance.

Maureen would like to have him psychologically evaluated prior to/as a part of their current divorce trial, how can she legally go about having that done?

[Sara Huizenga]

John Quinn, you are good stuff! And spot on! Maureen and all of us are so lucky to have you! xoxoxo

You keep supporting our girl, she needs it right now!

[Maureen Reintjes-Peace4 Admin]

John Quinn...settle down! :)

Mentally ill people walk by you every day and you don't know it. How many times have you seen a news story where someone commits some horrible murder and all his neighbors and friends say he was a great guy they never suspected that anything was wrong with him?

What I saw on Monday was physically my husband but the extreme personality shift and memory gaps are what have me concerned....they were not my husband. We have been married 28 years now, 24 when he went missing...trust me I know when something is not right with my husband. I have asked for mental and medical evaluations but my requests go nowhere.

At the moment though this is about showing Bartlesville that this country's missing community stands behind Peggy and myself. And, most importantly that laws are enacted to make it a crime to go maliciously missing.



John Quinn said:

Sara..Like I told Maureen..If he was mentally unstable..why did he go to a lawyer and ask for a divorce..by a notice in the paper no less ! Why was he unfit mentally and still was able to go to an ATM and take money out before he left?Why did he walk up to Maureen and their daughters?Did he reconise them..I'd say YES..Did he hug them and tell them he loved them..I'd say NO..Did he say he was sorry?..I'd say NO I would say he was crazy..like a fox !! I'm a forgiving man but I would never be able to forgive him.All the pain and anguish and worry he put Maureen and the girls through...GOD help him..cause NO ONE ELSE WILL !! love,,john

Sara/Peace4 Co-Founder said:

Also, it seems overwhelmingly clear that Maureen's husband, Jon, is suffering from some kind of mental incapacity which may be the very reason for his approx. 4 year disappearance.

Maureen would like to have him psychologically evaluated prior to/as a part of their current divorce trial, how can she legally go about having that done?