Voice Platform and Support Network for Families of Missing and Victims of Crime
Today I got a very touching note from Alonie, I saw the other side of the coin. When our officer Rajchel became offended, I knew it was out of frusteration, pain, and hurt. No one can fault you when you are hurting and grieving and the answers are not coming. No one can fault you for asking questions and for sometimes lashing out...I will post the letter here and if we could also support Alonie as a family member I would so appreciate you so very much for this.
Huge, huge hugs to you! I'm so glad you listened to Alonie with an open mind and more importantly an open heart.
To you Alonie.......you are allowed to feel anyway you want. There are no rules, no manuals for what you are going through and certainly NO ONE can tell you how to feel or act. I know how it is, from second to second your emotions and behaviors change.....it's the worse roller coaster ride in the world. And, there is no one there to throw the switch so you can get off this crazy ride.
What I find so nice, so comforting about Peace4 is it is a safety net. I don't feel like what we share on here the other members are looking at like it's made for TV movie. So many of these "crime" boards are so full of hateful owners, moderators and members that don't give a rat's ass about the families. They sit and wait for the "bombshell." They don't realize that we are real people....to them we are just some friggen character in a story or probably for many of them some charcter like in a soap opera....the only difference is they can be interactive with us, but we're still just characters to them.
Peace4 keep up the good work!
Alonie....hang in there and lean on us.
thanks for your support, i am not here to offend anyone, are to cause some one to withdraw from the group, i need everyone support, in three monts my darling daughter will be missing six years. in 8 days my only son will be dead 3 years, so i am trying very hard to hold it together. so every one please,keep me and my familly in,your prayers, as these dates approaches.