It is a horrible thought that LE would keep families in the dark about any scenario regarding their missing or recovered loved one. We have been in the dark for a long time, feeling alone, abandoned and taking on the role of detective. No matter who is on the case, LE, missing person orgs or SAR, there is still an overwhelming feeling of fear and helplessness. All you have is hope. Never peace of mind.

What is actually happening to put all the pieces together, close all the…

You guys are so awesome. Are you sure you are not professional counselors? God never fails to use just the right people at just the right time for whatever your needs. There is no one better to talk to than someone who has been there. Thank you for your comments.

I feel very comfortable in this forum and believe that it is safe to open up here. The last thing I want is for my family to be exposed to what could be shocking news in a setting like Facebook or some other very common…

There is not a POMC chapter in the Nashville area. I cannot find a group that focuses on murdered loved ones. Although The Compassionate Friends is an awesome support group, we need something more dedicated to the topic, does not require political correctness about spiritual things, and has more events we can participate in. I agree that common, even spiritual, grief support does no good in our situation. We have tried them all and still feel lost in our grief.

You hit the…