Voice Platform and Support Network for Families of Missing and Victims of Crime
So many loved ones go missing, get abducted, bought and sold into human slave underground industries, and sold into human sex trafficking networks. Many are never found and many that are found become our Homicide Victims and our Doe Cases that continue to be unresolved.
How do we react to that? How is it that we move on, go forward, and live our lives?
Families hold out Hope as well do friends and aquaintances, advocates. Children, Husbands, Wives, Fathers, Brothers, Sisters, and Mothers they all hold hope alive. Minutes turn in to hours, hours turn into days, days into weeks, weeks into months and months in to years, and for some even decades. These people still hold out hope.
Every single day they awake they hold out the hope that today will be the day that their loved one is reunited with them, that they are found or that they get some sort of answer.
What I have found most heart felt in what they say is, "There are days of hope and there are days of sadness, and in the end there are days of hope!" What gets us the most is the just not knowing anything at all! Limbo!
Imagine you being in limbo, being in a state of being that there is no future or no past. There is only today! Today the day your loved one could be home, or an answer given. Imagine not being able to go forward into the future or backwards into the past and no matter what you cant change where you are at the time. What would you do if this were you?
So, dont tell them they must move on, go forward, give up, let go, or just to forget about it. After all its someones child, someones friend, someones husband or wife, someones brother or sister, aunt, uncle or grandparent. Could you move on? How would you handle what they handle daily.
Try this: Instead of telling anyone anything, how about listening, how about asking them if they want to share their story, how about listening to what they have inside their minds, hearts, souls. Sometimes when we become a vessel, we become the hand of the world to one soul in need.
Just Dont Tell Them Get on With Your Life!